2:00pm - 3:30pm: Block 1
UPSTAIRS SPACE
The Violet Wand: is it for you? (A discussion about Electroplay Safety)
Facilitator: Mistress Scarlet Reign
Join Mistress Scarlet Reign for an informative workshop called “The Violet Wand: is it for you? A discussion about Electroplay Safety. Whether you’re new to electroplay or just curious, this workshop is for you.
The discussion will cover some basic information about what the violet wand is, the anatomy of the wand itself and how it works, along with some general guidelines, safety factors, possible hazards and what precautions you can take to avoid any mishaps.
We will dive into how to play safely and different ways the violet wand can be used. As well as, how to properly clean your equipment. We'll touch on where to find your own violet wand kit and which kit might be right for you.
This will be a hands on workshop where, after the discussion, you will get the opportunity to try out the violet wand. See some of the attachments that are compatible and feel the different sensations and intensity. Test your limit or that of your partner(s).
The Violet Wand….It’s electrifying!!
Scarlet Reign is a Toronto-based Professional Dominatrix with over 20 years of BDSM experience and knowledge in her arsenal. She is constantly looking for opportunities to grow and learn new skills, with the intent to provide an array of sinful pleasures to those seeking fulfillment for that which lies deep within.
Being a member of the BDSM community has given Scarlet the pleasure to work on providing a safe space for people to meet and at times indulge themselves in play. She is a switch by nature and very open about who they are. Having experienced both sides of the slash, the Dominant and submissive sides, gives her some insight into what submissives/bottoms go through before, during and after play. Keeping in mind that we are all unique in our own way and in how we react to similar experiences; Scarlet’s submissives come from here and there, do this and that, and have the gender spectrum covered.
She offers a myriad of tantalizing, almost torturous delights which include: Age Play, Corporal Punishment, Degradation/ Humiliation, Forced Bi-Sexuality/Feminization, Sensory Deprivation, Taboo Role Play and more....
Those that go to see Scarlet are open to experiencing the freedom of self-expression in its most natural form.
“In the dark is where the light shines its brightest...let Me show you the light!!!!”
DOWNSTAIRS SPACE
Ouch...MMM! Temporary Piercing Workshop 201a Duration and predicaments (intermediate level)
Facilitator: Xray Aims
This workshop assumes that participants have an introductory level knowledge of, and experience with, temporary piercing. Though we will quickly cover materials, methods, safety etc. our main focus will be on multiple needle work, more advanced piercing locations, sensation play, tension play, artistic explorations, creating a predicament scene, and longer duration scenes.
We will learn through live demonstrations and hands-on experience how to create difficult and perplexing situations where the piercer or piercee has to choose between scenarios with different amounts of intricacy. The more sadistic and creative, the more complex and challenging the choices become.
Each person who wants to experience piercing or being pierced will have the opportunity to do so. The first third of the workshop time will be spent in discussion, the second third will be spent watching multiple demonstrations, and in the last third we will split up into groups to get some hands-on experience.
Xray Aims (they | them) is a Boston, MA US based performance artist, temporary piercer and BDSM / kinkster educator who has been piercing in public and private since 2003. Xray Aims has degrees in Art and Architecture and has performed and taught in the US, Canada and Europe. Practicing, learning, teaching/sharing, having fun and giving pain is what makes it exciting for them. Xray Aims has aphasia and speaks slowly. They hope that people will follow their lead.
XA: xrayaims.com IG: @xray_aims_artist xrayaims@gmail.com
4:00pm - 5:30pm: Block 2
UPSTAIRS SPACE
Sex and Gender are Rigged! Rope Harnesses for Queers
Facilitator: Leanne Powers
Rope can be a tool for self pleasure, connection and empowerment. Holding many metaphors and lessons in learning and transformation, it can be used to feel more at home in our bodies, grounded, and present to play.
Does being tied up help you feel held, relaxed or contained?
Does it help you feel more free, mighty, or capable?
How can we use rope to channel energy, explore our skills and find the right balance of sensations?
This workshop will cover tying techniques for fun, power play and body modification. Together, we will learn: a few techniques to bind and/or accentuate our chests and breasts; custom harnesses that can be adjusted and used to explore our desires; important safety and rope care tips.
Supplies to bring - a pair of safety scissors if you have them, and a minimum of 50 ft/15 m of medium to thick rope. Nylon and hemp/jute are easiest to use for these ties. Rope will be available for any participants who may need to borrow some for the workshop.
L. Powers is a multidisciplinary artist and sex education teacher who has been learning, working, and curating in queer kink communities since the 90s. Their practices at the intersection of art and activism explore community ethics, sex work, labour politics, somatic care, chronic health conditions, ageism, and queer and trans love.
Mx Leanne has taught on topics such as; domestic/lifestyle training, lactation fetish, D/s dynamics, leather history, long term confinement, erotic photography, rope play, endurance and torture scenes, kink and poly family life, piercing/kiting play, caning, face play, takedowns, age play, negotiation skills, sex industry ethics, and sacred BDSM.
Their work, spanning film, performance, textiles, and workshop facilitation, has been presented locally and internationally in spaces such as the legendary Pleasure Palace bathhouse events, the Toronto Erotic Arts Festival, LadyFest, Trigger Festival, Inside Out, and Nuit Blanche.
Growing out of a long term commitment to providing sacred space, from 2004-2019 Mx Leanne established and maintained 'Lapspace'; an underground hub of community care, industry workers, activism, and art.
DOWNSTAIRS SPACE
Assertiveness for Submissives
Facilitator: CoCo La Creme
Getting what you want as a submissive is all about communication right? Sounds simple enough, but even experienced subs can struggle with re-orienting our scenes and revealing our needs and desires. There can be many reasons why this feels challenging, including difficulties with self-esteem, internal awareness, shame and self-doubt. How can we hold onto the thrilling sensations of giving up control and activating taboos, while remaining present and accountable to our own boundaries and authentic sexual selves?
This workshop will provide a space for subs to meet and discuss what is coming up for us when asserting ourselves feels most difficult. In recognition of the expertise that exists within the group, we will also share strategies and insights to help and support each other, while validating shared experiences.
In addition to creating space for discussion, the facilitator will engage the group in somatic activities designed to help support increased internal awareness and boundary-setting. This will give us a chance to move around and bring our bodies into the learning experience. The workshop will close with a meditation for self-insight, self-trust and pleasure.
CoCo La Creme is an experienced sex and relationship educator who has been enhancing sex lives for over 20 years. Her empathetic approach, warm personality and sense of humour ensure that her classes are always as comfortable as they are informative. CoCo focusses on teaching essential sensual skills and improving erotic communication. Her work has been featured on numerous television shows, major print publications and blogs.
CoCo uses a mind-body approach to talking about sexuality, recognizing that both our internal and external experiences are integral to understanding our sexual selves. She works with groups, couples and individuals to help demystify sexual topics, uncover sexual issues and resource growth and healing.
CoCo La Creme, is also a pioneering local burlesque artist who has been performing on stages near and far for over 25 years.